As alluded to in “The True Reach and Impact of Howard (Part I), the international opportunities that abound at Howard have been taken for granted by many of us because we have normalized it. Last year, South Africa’s First Lady Nampumelelo Ntuli Zuma, came to Howard and was hosted in Carnegie Hall. Remembering it like yesterday, I can still hear the songs that Afro Blue performed for her.
Like many important events on-campus, I did not find out about the reception until half-way through it. A friend from Zimbabwe, Anesu Nyamuda, called and told me that she was here and that I should attend. Having remembered my “Long Journey to South Africa”, he figured that meeting the first lady at Howard could serve as another resource in fulfilling my dream to visit South Africa.
At first I felt unprepared to go. What would I say? I don’t even know the first lady’s name or what she looks like. How will I engage her if given the opportunity? I would like for our interaction to be meaningful, not the routine “Oh, we’re so glad to have you” comment. After this mental debate, I decided to make the great trek from the East Towers to Carnegie Hall, and like any other decision that makes you break inertia, I was glad that I wasn’t complacent and didn’t normalize her presence on campus.
After entering the reception, it almost took an hour to recognize her because she camouflaged into her entourage. However, when I did I approached her with grace, thanking her for her presence and letting her know that I would be coming to South Africa soon. Her response of, “Well, just let me know” instantly prompted me to ask for her e-mail address. This is when she referred me to her personal assistant, Khosie. Initially, I thought I deflected to the person who would politely give me the run around. But in speaking with Khosie, I instantly knew that she was sincere when she gave me her e-mail address and phone number.
..Almost two years later, I did the one thing that most people don’t do…follow up. Once the dates were finalized for our trip to South Africa, I e-mailed Khosie about meeting at Howard and our trip to her country and she responded.
At the time, I didn’t imagine the magnitude of my decision to “just show up” but last night served as a confirmation. I am grateful to have been the link between our group and South Africa’s ruling family, thereby giving 11 other individuals the opportunity to have dinner with the South African First Lady Nampumelelo Ntuli Zuma and tea with President Jacob Zuma.
Peace,